Children Learn What They Live

Children Learn What They Live
By Dorothy Law Nolte, Ph.D.

If children live with criticism, they learn to condemn.
If children live with hostility, they learn to fight.
If children live with fear, they learn to be apprehensive.
If children live with pity, they learn to feel sorry for themselves.
If children live with ridicule, they learn to feel shy.
If children live with jealousy, they learn to feel envy.
If children live with shame, they learn to feel guilty.
If children live with encouragement, they learn confidence.
If children live with tolerance, they learn patience.
If children live with praise, they learn appreciation.
If children live with acceptance, they learn to love.
If children live with approval, they learn to like themselves.
If children live with recognition, they learn it is good to have a goal.
If children live with sharing, they learn generosity.
If children live with honesty, they learn truthfulness.
If children live with fairness, they learn justice.
If children live with kindness and consideration, they learn respect.
If children live with security, they learn to have faith in themselves and in those about them.
If children live with friendliness, they learn the world is a nice place in which to live.

下面是这段话的中文译文：
孩子从生活中学到什么
     ——多萝西.劳.诺特

如果孩子生活在批评中，他们将学会指责
如果孩子生活在敌意中．他们将学会争斗
如果孩子生活在恐惧中，他们将学会担忧
如果孩子生活在遗憾中，他们将学会自怜
如果孩子生活在嘲笑中，他们将学会畏缩
如果孩子生活在猜忌中，他们将学会嫉妒
如果孩子生活在羞辱中，他们将学会自责
如果孩子生活在鼓励中，他们将学会自信
如果孩子生活在宽容中，他们将学会耐心
如果孩子生活在赞美中，他们将学会感激
如果孩子生活在认同中．他们将学会去爱
如果孩子生活在肯定中，他们将学会自爱
如果孩子生活在认可中，他们将拥有目标
如果孩子生活在分享中．他们将学会慷慨
如果孩子生活在诚实中，他们将学会正直
如果孩子生活在公平中，他们将学会正义
如果孩子生活在友爱和体贴中，他们将学会尊重
如果孩子生活在安全中，他们将学会信赖自己和他人
如果孩子生活在友善中，他们将知道世界是居住的乐土

　　当孩子再和小朋友们“争吵打闹”时，亲爱的爸爸妈妈们先别管－－放手一次，让孩子们自己去解决问题吧！父母不可能跟孩子们一辈子！！